Monday, October 13, 2025

Birthday

 It was my birthday on Saturday. I gave the boys their haircut in the morning and took James to his first swim meet of the season. He did good, but I did not! I made him NS on his 50-yard freestyle because I messed up reading the heat assignment. Whomp, whomp.

For the past few years, since a suggestion from my "otter" half, I've taken the day off work on my birthday to celebrate. Since it was on a Saturday, and I was going to be busy, I took the Friday off. I treated myself to a 23-mile cycle up the reservoir (where I PRed on the water dog trail, which I supposedly have done around 18 times now!). And then steam room, and a beef brisket lunch (which was not as amazing as I;d hoped). It was a day of self-care and relaxation..!

Thursday, October 09, 2025

It's been a while

Thinking that I should write more. It's really nice to look back and read some of these articles, despite cringing on some of them. A 12-year break during which there were kids and lots of growing as a person, couple, and as a family. It has not been easy, to say the least. Really tough years. I think I am back here perhaps because I am ready again. More to come.. 🤞

Saturday, July 06, 2013

Russell (August 1997 - 3 July 2013)


Russell, you joined our family in 1997. I think it was early November, when you were about three-months old. I remember being picked up from a camp at school and there you were, in a crate in the back seat and busily chewing at the newspaper. It was such a fantastic surprise. The first few weeks were rough - we had no idea about caring for a dog and you needed so much attention and toilet training.

We went to obedience school together. I was so proud that when told to "come", you would run to me whereas the other dogs walked to their owners before sitting down. We failed our first exam - you had no idea but I was heart-broken. You loved the after-class agility exercises and so did I.

You chewed up countless pagers, sandals and slippers. You were a greedy little one and we came home many times to a bloated dog hiding under the sofa. You knew how to sit, come, heel, lie down, shake hand and roll over. Perhaps I'll give you half credit for the last one since you could only roll over starting on your right side (clockwise if looking at you). You knew your way to grandma's flat and loved to visit her. Popo called you "la-soh" and gave you many good treats. Your favorite words were "biscuit" and "gai-gai*". You hated going to the vet, taking a shower or any water activity, and you didn't like it when people fought. You were the peace-maker of the household.

One time we had the air-conditioning man over and the front door was left unlocked. I wasn't paying attention and you managed to steal away to the park downstairs and we nearly lost you. Fortunately mummy was on her way home and caught sight of you. Your relationship with mummy was slightly weird but very endearing. She never wanted a dog as she had a phobia. When you first arrived, we put a bell on your collar so she could hear where you were at all times. Sometimes you snuck up on her when she was sitting down on the floor to fold the clothes and she would scream. It was quite hilarious. But soon she grew very fond of you and she was your favorite - you'd follow her everywhere in the house, especially when she was cooking.

You were a little dog with a big heart. You loved being around people and my friends loved to play with you. Playing under the covers and fetching the tennis ball were some of your favorite. I'm sorry you grew old and got sick. You are no longer with us now and you are dearly missed in our hearts. Goodbye Russell. I love you. Thank you for sixteen years of fun, love and joy.


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*gai-gai means to go for a walk.

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Breakfast

At a classic diner in Coronado, San Diego.

Monday, August 16, 2010

Look what we found

as we returned home yesterday. All our ground floor neighbours got
the same decorations in front of their entrances too!

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

rain!



At the end of May?!?!